I sent a card today to Spain for my great-granddaughter's 2nd birthday. It is three weeks away, but the time post takes to reach rural Spain is unpredictable. I am looking forward to seeing her when I get married in May.
I think that parenting is much more difficult today than in the analogue world of the 1970s and 1980s. Social media poses challenges for parents that I didn't have to deal with and my great-granddaughter will live in a world in which AI will probably rule supreme. Like all technologies, it has benefits and disadvantages, but it will be challenging to regulate effectively.
I also think that a lot more is expected today of parents in terms of intervening in the lives of their children. My approach was rather laissez-faire, 'whatever'. There were scrapes along the way, but that is unavoidable with teenagers. It's also easier to deal with them when you are relatively young yourself which is why I was pleased when my granddaughter had her daughter at the age of 22.
Unfortunately, though, I was still hard at work when my grandchildren were growing up which meant I wasn't able to give them as much time as I would have liked.
One threat in the modern world that I haven't really been able to deal with (I am not a criminologist) is the rise of global criminal organizations. Of course, they have been around for a long time but one increasingly sees them challenging the power of the state in Mexico and increasingly in France, for example.
I am not convinced that drugs policies that focus on the supply side rather than demand really work, but lifting prohibition has its many risks. However, is cannabis really more dangerous than alcohol? Interesting that the younger generation consumes much less alcohol, but zero or law alcohol beers have improved considerably.
All these challenges demand better political leadership and the trend towards populist authoritarian regimes is worrying and will be the subject of my last letter.